Last night the GF and I were talking about this whole Spitzer thing and I said it goes to show you a woman can pretty much get a man to do anything. They have a unspoken power that if a pretty woman says or does the right thing, we are all ears. She disagreed, so I changed the subject. Strip clubs are a prime example. Have you even seen a old or unattractive man in a club that has a sexy chic sitting with him for long amounts of time? It's cause she's flirting with him and he for some reason thinks he's going to get some trim, so he continues to buy her overpriced drinks and BS expensive dances. Then she fools the dummy to a back room private dance and then he's broke, check gone. Who's with me here?
So amirite?
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What a dumb question
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So true. In social terms, young, beautiful women hold absolutely incredible amounts of power. Some learn much earlier than others how true this is. If they're smart, they can parlay that power into success in whatever they want.
Problem is, as they age, that power diminishes. And whatever personal deficiencies they may have become much more apparent and problematic. In other words, people will be less willing to put up with their shit. And this can be devastating to many women. And thus the obsession begins to fight the inevetible fate of becoming virtually invisable in society.
We see so many beautiful women in their 30s, 40s and beyond who are routinely having cosmetic surgery in a desperate and futile attempt to hold on to their looks.
Many will claim it's for their careers, their relationships, self asteem, etc., but the bottom line is that when it's done in excess, it's just plain sad.
Problem is, as they age, that power diminishes. And whatever personal deficiencies they may have become much more apparent and problematic. In other words, people will be less willing to put up with their shit. And this can be devastating to many women. And thus the obsession begins to fight the inevetible fate of becoming virtually invisable in society.
We see so many beautiful women in their 30s, 40s and beyond who are routinely having cosmetic surgery in a desperate and futile attempt to hold on to their looks.
Many will claim it's for their careers, their relationships, self asteem, etc., but the bottom line is that when it's done in excess, it's just plain sad.
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More to your point, Putty.
Strippers will tell you they have nothing but comtempt for their customers. And that the men are pathetic and suckers for giving up all their cash just to see some pussy and for the illusion that they might some day get some of it.
The truth is, some of the "regulars" at clubs are simply lonely and often socially inept and are basically paying these girls for companionship.
Many of these men are exploited by strippers who get their rent, car payments, etc., paid by these men - not with the dangling of the sex carrot (so to speak) - but by providing "friendship". To many of these men, these girls are goddesses.
The way I look at strip clubs, I go there to look at pretty girls, have a few drinks, and hang out with the boys. And I'm willing to pay for it. Just like going to Vegas to gamble. The money lost is the price paid for a few hours of entertainment. I don't feel I'm a sucker at a strip joint or casino if I've dropped a few bills for a good time had.
Strippers will tell you they have nothing but comtempt for their customers. And that the men are pathetic and suckers for giving up all their cash just to see some pussy and for the illusion that they might some day get some of it.
The truth is, some of the "regulars" at clubs are simply lonely and often socially inept and are basically paying these girls for companionship.
Many of these men are exploited by strippers who get their rent, car payments, etc., paid by these men - not with the dangling of the sex carrot (so to speak) - but by providing "friendship". To many of these men, these girls are goddesses.
The way I look at strip clubs, I go there to look at pretty girls, have a few drinks, and hang out with the boys. And I'm willing to pay for it. Just like going to Vegas to gamble. The money lost is the price paid for a few hours of entertainment. I don't feel I'm a sucker at a strip joint or casino if I've dropped a few bills for a good time had.
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RLover said:anyone know a good strip club?![]()
No you don't........R1Lover meant femaleslidewayz said:A couple![]()
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I agree Putty most of the time you are correct. But then it also comes down to the guy too... Some of us just aren't that desperate or lonely or stupid or whatever other adjective you wanna use to explain the power of the pussy.
Personally that's a pet peeve of mine...if a girl tries to use the goods as a bargaining chip so to speak, she can move along to somebody else. I'm not playing that stupid game.
Strip clubs are a different story. I wouldn't have a problem going down with some buddies and getting drunk and seeing some tits... But I go there knowing that that's all it's going to be.
Personally that's a pet peeve of mine...if a girl tries to use the goods as a bargaining chip so to speak, she can move along to somebody else. I'm not playing that stupid game.
Strip clubs are a different story. I wouldn't have a problem going down with some buddies and getting drunk and seeing some tits... But I go there knowing that that's all it's going to be.
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Im with putty also. Many girls use their looks to get whatever they want. I think when hes talking about the pathetic guys though, hes talking about the older guys that get taken for all their money. Yeah there are def guys that go there knowing there is nothing to gain, but go anyway for the fun. The sad ones are the ones that go there cause they were fooled the first time into thinking they can get it. And keep coming back thinking this is the time. THose are the ones that needed friends to want them before hand, lol
Personally when i go to the strip club, wll the crappy ones near me, me and my friend buy a few drinks and never have to pay the girls unless we get a dance. Most of the time theyll just chill with us sitting on the side of the stage talking naked without even dancing. Then when those suckers walk and sit at the stage, theyll be like i gotta go work, be back in a few and go dance on the pole get her money and come back and sit over the edge talking to us, hahaha Is that bad that then me and my friend are then using the suckers also??? hahaha
But altleast it makes for a cheap night of naked girls, lol
Personally when i go to the strip club, wll the crappy ones near me, me and my friend buy a few drinks and never have to pay the girls unless we get a dance. Most of the time theyll just chill with us sitting on the side of the stage talking naked without even dancing. Then when those suckers walk and sit at the stage, theyll be like i gotta go work, be back in a few and go dance on the pole get her money and come back and sit over the edge talking to us, hahaha Is that bad that then me and my friend are then using the suckers also??? hahaha
But altleast it makes for a cheap night of naked girls, lol
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you know I go to the stip clubs here all the time.. and well I don't have to pay for my dances... so that tells you that most girls like girls.. and just the guys money
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.... I used to dance and some guys are very lonely and will just keep paying to keep you with them... but don't get me wrong there are some cute ones that will pay alot too.. besides if the girls hot what normal guy could resist... I just pay them cuz I know that is how they get their money.. I did it cuz I'm an attention whore..
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and well the money was good too..
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pics of what all the lonely men? I'll see what I can find..RLover said:^^ We need pics![]()
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oh and back to the original topic: yes... beautiful women get their way... or at least "appear" too
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